By Joni Lindquist

When you lose your spouse, evaluating your finances likely takes a back seat to more pressing concerns. But even amid the grief that accompanies the death of a loved one, it is important to assess your financial situation to avoid making any rash decisions in the painful time following your loss, and to ensure that you and your family have the necessary resources in the future.  Below are three main considerations.

Gather Critical Documents

Collect all documents relevant to your financial situation, including insurance policies; bank, credit card, and investment statements; mortgage documents; tax returns; government retirement benefit statements; and any pensions and other employer-provided benefit statements. If the paperwork is substantial, create a filing system to help organize the various documents.

Read the documents carefully and write down questions as they arise. Your financial planner can be a valuable partner throughout this process as may want to create a balance sheet listing your assets and liabilities, as well as a cash flow statement detailing your income and expenditures over the course of a year.

Assess Your Benefits & Goals

On some matters, immediate action will be required. As soon as possible after the death of your spouse, apply for any life insurance, public benefits, or veterans benefits to which you are entitled. If your family’s health insurance coverage was through your spouse’s employer, you may be able to retain those benefits for a period of time. If your health coverage has been discontinued or has become too expensive, explore alternatives to avoid becoming uninsured. Some group health plans may allow surviving spouses and their dependents to convert to an individual policy.

If you have inherited money or received substantial proceeds from an insurance policy, there are important long-range decisions to be made. Avoid spending or giving away the money until you have carefully considered your future needs and the tax implications of your gifts. Even if you are retired, you may want to manage the funds so that they generate income to support you over time. If you have minor children, you may want to consider ways to fund their education.

Review Your Estate Plan

This may also be the time to delve more deeply into the estate planning process. Review your will to affirm the current state of your assets and your desired distribution to heirs. Your attorney may recommend a trust as a means of accomplishing your estate planning goals. Trusts can help you handle a variety of family and tax-related issues. Also, consider the role of life insurance in your estate. You may find that you need additional life insurance coverage, not only to provide for your beneficiaries, but also to help cover Federal and state estate taxes.

While it is necessary to make certain financial decisions following the death of a spouse, give yourself time to heal before making any major decisions—possibly as long as a year or more. Until you are certain of your choices, it may be best to leave inherited assets in savings or money market accounts. Then, with the help of financial, tax, and legal planners, you may be in a better position to design a plan that will provide for you and your loved ones in the days and years ahead.

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